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Beautiful Russian Brides. Age difference.
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By Elena Petrova
Part 4. Age difference.
You can find in Russia and Ukraine a much younger woman.
This argument, again, is primarily useful for your male friends, since a younger woman is preferred to an older one for the same reasons, as a more beautiful woman is preferred to a less beautiful. It can also be used for your parents if you are over 40 and seek a woman of the child-productive age (assuming they are eager to have a blessing of grandchildren, which you failed to produce as yet).
You can, indeed, find in Ukraine a woman of a much younger age than can be available for you in your home country. Nearly every Russian Brides will be happy with the age difference up to 10 years, most will accept the difference up to 15 years. In special cases you can get away with an even bigger age difference, but if you are not a famous writer/actor/TV-presenter/musician/etc or do not have an impressive bank balance, I am sorry to inform you that you should not bargain on special cases. Nevertheless, the "ordinary" age difference of 10-15 years is still a good reason to consider.
Why Russian Brides seek older men? I still, after many years of working in the Russian dating industry, cannot give a profound answer to this question.
I can only say personally that when I was looking for a man abroad, I wanted him to be at least 10 (at most 15) years older than myself. I think it is mostly due to the feeling of security that women are after. I am not talking about financial security (though having a stable job is a must if you want a Russian wife) but rather the feeling of security a woman has when marrying an older man: most likely, he will not leave her for somebody younger and will appreciate her.
Russian men are very promiscuous, and it is not rare that a man leaves his wife at the age of 35-40 for a girl in her twenties. Having to move to a strange country, this is the last thing women want to happen to them. Thus, marrying an older man, a woman feels more secure than marrying a man of her age, even if they would have the same financial stability.
Marrying a foreigner for a Russian Women is still like a fairy-tale (during Soviet times it was considered to be a great success to marry a foreigner and move to the "free" western world), so if this man is also handsome and young, she might feel "it is too good to be true" and is very likely to decline such a relationship. With an older man she feels "it is the real thing".
Actually, in Ukraine and Russia, women usually marry men of their own age or 2-3 years older. But when they look for partners abroad, they would prefer a little bigger age difference. This trend is often explained by financial security that men gain with age, but in my opinion it is not true since the vast majority of Russian Brides have no idea how to distinguish if the man has money (I am often asked this question, how to figure out if the man is not broke).
So I believe the feeling of psychological comfort is very important for Russian Women("it is the real thing" as oppose to "it is too good to be true").
With this in mind, if you are young, you must remember she is looking for a partner for life and needs assurance that you are mature enough to get married once and forever.
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