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Beautiful Russian Girls . Traditional family values.
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By Elena Petrova
Part 3. Traditional family values.
Russian and Russian Girls have traditional family values.
This answer you can also use for your male acquaintances and, with some modifications, for Russian women (you should tell them that you like Russian and Russian Girls attitudes towards family; the word "values" has a different meaning in Russian).
It is true that family is very important for Russian and Russian Girls. As it was described earlier, a Russian and Russian Girls should be married with children in order to have a respectable social status. No career success can substitute this need of having her own family. In Russia and Ukraine a woman who has never been married is looked down upon. In other words, the Russian definition of success for a woman includes marriage and children as the primary conditions.
This is the reason why Russian and Russian Girls put greater importance on finding a suitable partner for marriage than on making their own careers, which many westerners (especially women) interpret as "parasitic" and "lazy". In fact, Russian and Girls from Russia are not afraid of hard work, and they are used to working, but their natural instinct tells them they must find a male who will be able to provide for his female while she is busy with their offspring and unable to support the family on her own. This is why Russian and Ukrainian Women prefer men that are established in life, especially when a woman has to go to a new country where she is not sure of her employment perspectives.
The other reason why Russian and Russian Girls prefer putting their values on family rather than on a career is that the Russian career market is still very discriminative towards women. A man always has a better prospective than a woman of the same education and talent. This also has to do with general values of the Russian society, as it is expected from a woman to sacrifice or neglect her career when she gets married.
Usually a woman will have a child shortly after marriage, and according to the Russian law the company has to pay her a very long maternity leave (up to 1.5 years), and also pay her sick leave when she sits at home with a sick child, and small kids are often sick. Sick leave in Russia is certified by a doctor until the person is 100% healthy, which is usually 10-14 days, and during this time the mother stays at home with the child and the company pays her full salary. Therefore, the lawful maternity benefits make women undesirable employees. Naturally, employers prefer to give promotions to men who are habitually considered primary family providers and will be more committed to their work after they are married.
Therefore, the cultural disposition for women is to find their self-realization in a family, and for men - to find it in a career. Normally, a Russian and Ukrainian Girls will prefer to help her husband in building his career rather than building her own (for example, if there is enough money for only one person to study, she will prefer the man to get a better qualification in order to promote his career). This fact has nothing to do with parasitism but with distribution of the family responsibilities: Russian and Russian Women firmly believe that it is the responsibility of a woman to provide a warm and loving home, and the man's responsibility is to provide for this home financially.
A Russian and Russian Girls will be happy to provide a second income for the family, if needed, but she will feel uncomfortable if her income is bigger than her husband's, and will try to help him to succeed.
In this sense, we can conclude that Russian Women still hold traditional family values where the man is the leader in the family. If you ask any Russian Girls, who do you think should be the leader in the family, she will say she wants a man who will be the leader. Russian and Ukrainian Girls happily give men the leading role, and do not see anything wrong with needing a man in their lives.
At the same time Russian and Ukrainian Women do not want to be ordered around, and want partnership in a marriage. They want to be respected and appreciated. They are not doormats. For them, marriage is a union of equals.
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